Tuesday, January 31, 2006

Five Do's And Dont's On A Blind Date

1. BE YOUR NORMAL SELF
Dating is all about being yourself and it is important to come across
as a nice guy who is polite and courteous all the time. Remember, things
could take a different shape altogether if the friendship tirns into a
relationship. Don't project yourself as the guy you would like to be - just
be what you are. For instance, if you want to dance, ask your date in a very
straightforward way instead of putting it in a pre planned, superficial
" Can i have the honour of this dance? " kind of way. Your date might just end
up secretly laughing at you.

2. DON'T SHOW OFF
Being honest with your date always helps. Trying to play with words and rattling
off smart-alec comments in James Bond style will unnerve your date. And just because
your date happens to be intellectually inclind, borrowing lines to show off will
fail to create an impression. In fact, it may just end up displaying your ignorance
and lack of originality.

3. DON'T EXPECT TOO MUCH OUT OF THE DATE
When one is on a date, the only way to enjoy oneself is to have an open mind.
If you go out on a date expecting your partner to be a stunner or a rocket
scientist, you're most probably going to be disappointed. Remember, trying to
prove your intelligence to your date or her lack of intelligence will not get
your anywhere. In fact, it will just make the atmosphere tense and uneasy.
Try to relax, lose your inhibitions, and have fun. After all, that is the main
reason why the two have you have come on a date in the first place.

4. DON'T BE A PERVERT
Try to keep your focus above her neck-line and don't make your date uneasy by
staring at all the wrong places. Staring and making sexual advances will only
scare your date. Besides, it is highly impolite and it sends out the wrong signals.

5. RULES OF A FIRST DATE
One must not forget that there are certain rules that one should follow on the
first date. These rules were made for a reason and following them will only do
you good. Don't be too presumptuous on your first date. It is not necessary that
your date fall head-over-heels in love with you at first sight, no matter how
good-looking you are. Being a little reserved won't hurt anyone. In any case,
if you pull the wrong string, you will only end up going home with a bad experience.

Monday, January 30, 2006

The Positive Approach: "HABITS MAKE YOUR LIFE
Attitudes are nothing more than habits of thoughts. And habits can be acquired. An action repeated becomes an attitude realized. � Unknown

When you choose a habit, you also choose the results of that habit. � Zig Ziglar

Cultivate only the habits that you are willing should master you. � Elbert Hubbard

It is a psychological fact that you can influence your environment and thoughts. If you do so consciously and with high purpose, you can change your habits and attitudes for the better. � Unknown

Good habits are formed; bad habits we fall into. � Unknown

Our character is basically a composite of our habits. Because they are consistent, often unconscious patterns, they constantly, daily, express our character... � Stephen Covey

Bad habits are like a comfortable bed, easy to get into, but hard to get out of. � Unknown

Habit, my friend, is practice long pursued, that at least becomes man himself. � Evenus

Habits are cobwebs at first; cable at last. � Chinese Proverb

Habits � the only reason they persist is that they are offering some satisfaction. You allow them to persist by not seeking any other, better form of satisfying the same needs. Every habit, good or bad, is acquired and learned in the same way � by finding that it is a means of satisfaction. � Juniene Berk

Thoughts lead on to purposes; purposes go forth in action; actions form habits; habits decide character; and character fixes our destiny. � Tyron Edwards

Make good habits and they will make you. � Parks Cousins

Habit is either the best of servants or the worst of masters. � Nathaniel Emmons

The best way to stop a bad habit is never to begin it. � James C. Penny

In short, the habits we form fro"
A Sweet song from Saaya is Here

Wednesday, January 25, 2006

To love without condition.................................to talk without intention..............to give without reason ................. and to care without expectation..........is the heart of a true friend......... forward this to all the people whom u consider as ur true friend. dont forget to send it back to me !! if u consider me as ur frnd.... Yellow rose is the sign of friendship - I value yours. Today is world's online friend day. Send this to your online friends, even me, if I'm one of them. And see how many you get today.